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  Here's a little something that say's a whole lot about me...  Just a simple girl with simple dreams... who loves the simple things in life... Works Monday to Friday from 8 to 5. Enjoys listening to music, relaxing and watching basketball (LA Lakers, Detroit Pistons or Phoenix Suns). Not much of a reader. Likes to stay home and organize, lay back and cook dinner. And if in the mood, will go out dancing to have fun... or maybe go to the movies, have popcorn and blueberry icee. But I warn you I can also be very boring at times. There are days (even on weekends) when I just want to have quiet times at home doing absolutely nothing. I am the type who bothers nobody.. calls nobody.. and ask nobody for favors... In other words, nobody else does anything for me but ME (well except if it's really necessary!)..     Relationship wise: A guy doesn't have to give me a dozen of roses to impress me, one stem will do... Don't need a box of chocolates for Valentines Day, nothing should be sweeter than you... It's the little things you do that makes you special... Will give you enough space so you won't feel suffocated and I DO NOT NAG! Nope, don't like to argue (you have errands to run? go ahead and I'll see you later). Everyone needs space once in a while for the sake of their sanity, don't you think? Plus I don't like fights... I suggest to everyone to please avoid it if you can! Most of the time the best thing to do on a heated up conversation is to just: Shut up before you say something (stupid) that you might regret... I mean, can you really tell someone to 'get lost!' or ''don't come back!' and then later on cry like an idiot or get drunk? Doesn't make any sense to me...     I want to enjoy my life trusting the people I love... I'd rather worry about what I have to make for dinner than have negative thoughts inside my head- that will just drive us both off the wall. I am usually the quiet type. I hate to bring out the monster in me so I keep it locked in at all times. Trust me, we can all control our emotions... I am nice when you're nice but I can be bad when you treat me bad... In other words: Treat people the way you want to be treated.. I am not a psycho maniac so please do not turn me into one! So people, lets make love not war...  But really face it: People will do whatever they want to do REGARDLESS! You can spy-nag-scream-cry-stress-atte mpt to kill your sorry self... whatever! You name it! Anyone who wants to cheat.. cheats! It's how humans are designed to live their lives- we are all sinful.. But my point is, why should he if he has someone who doesn't nag or fight, and cooks him dinner, and picks up after his mess, and gives him a back rub when he's tired, and lets him chill to watch his favorite game? Go Lakers!! A guy with a good woman by his side is more relaxed at the end of the day and calls his home a 'Home Sweet Home'. Face it ladies, we are here to serve our man.. In the bible, women have to stand behind their man.. I know this is the new generation but guys hasn't change much since the old days... Anyway, just remember this: If a guy doesn't love you, he ain't gonna be with you... If he's happy, it must be bcuz u r doing something really good... Btw, this only applies to guys who cares though.. If a guy does not have any respect to women in general, then forget it!  I am only referring to the ones with a big heart, open-minded, very civil and reasonable. Love is a two-way street. Love is like an investment. I am willing to do or give more on a relationship only if I know I will get love, happiness, peace and the same respect in return... I know some of you may not agree with what I'm saying here but then again, THIS IS ABOUT ME (the drama-queen-free) and my beliefs... How you live your own life is completely up to you...I don't wish to complicate things and I don't need someone to rescue me... just want someone to be there... simple as that..
 People may think I'm just a one lonely girl... no I'm not! I only speak from past experiences which helped me see life through a different perspective... I'm in the point of my life where I don't need anything materialistic... I am happy, content and very thankful with what I've got... And one last thing to remember: Love is powerful... If you share it with your fellowmen, not only that you will receive love in return but you will also feel lightness and happiness in your heart. Life is short and can be stressful at times so take it easy... take it one day at a time... and don't be grumpy!
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