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 Me-Again Leave-Comments here Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it... Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it...  *******  ----Enjoy your Stay----  Meaningful Words "[Porcupines]huddle together for
warmth, but their sharp quills %#&@$! each other, so they pull
away.But then they get cold. They have to keep adjusting their
closeness and distance to keep from freezing and from getting
%#&@$!ed by their fellow porcupines--the sources of both
comfort and pain.
We need to get close to each other to have a sense of community, to feel we`re not alone in the world. But we need to keep our distance from each other to preserve our independence, so others don`t impose on or engulf us. This duality reflects the human condition. We are individual and social creatures. We need other people to survive, but we want to survive as individuals." __Deborah Tannen "While the right to talk may be the beginning
of freedom, the necessity of listening is what makes that right
important."
__Walter Lippmann "The reality of the other person is not in
what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you.
Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says
but rather to what he does not say."
__Kahlil Gibran *BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD* Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. *DON`T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY* Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won`t be the victim of needless suffering. *DON`T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS* Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. *ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST* Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret. WE DO NOT UNDERSTAND:     Lil Me   Guy: No Girl: Do you like me? Guy: Nope, not really Girl: Do you want me? Guy: Nope Girl: Would you cry if I left? Guy: Ugghh....Nope Girl: Would you live for me? Guy: Nuhh-uhhh Girl: What would you choose.. your life or me? Guy: My life The girl runs away in shock and in pain, then the guy runs after her and tells her... Guy: The reason why you never cross my mind is because you`re always on my mind. I dont like you because I love you. I dont want you because I need you. I won`t cry if you left I would die. The only reason why I chose my life is because you are my life... Because I Am A Girl (Korean) - Kiss |
