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Friendly vs. Interested.

Posted September 25th, 2008 at 05:17am

To this day I wonder how well guys differentiate these two things. A lot of guys still don't know how to tell if a girl is flirting or not. I don't know whether I should be surprised or think that they're idiots. They tend to play it off like they weren't interested when a girl shoots them down. All of a sudden she's big headed/stuck up when he came on way too strong. Don't worry, I'm sure some girls do it too.

I ran into a guy who didn't know he was flirting and tried to play it off like I was the crazy one once. All I can say is: tone it down man.

Point is, I don't want anyone crying about this later so I'll save you the trouble. Just because I respond doesn't mean that I am interested. I might just be in a good enough mood to respond. Let's be friends okay? I'm flattered if you think I'm pretty, but don't get butt hurt if I don't feel the same way. We BOTH get to pick--that's why they call it "attraction" instead of darts. Now how many of you fellas are trying to come up with some in denial reply? Don't bother, I'd just laugh at you. I'm just giving you food for thought in case you're the clueless type.

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bumblebe...

Female, 25, Temple, TX

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Hahaha ^_*



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Big_Mike_V

Male, Age Private, Brossard, QC

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From my own experience, most girls interested in a guy, DO NOT flirt with that guy.

Ironic. But true. They'll only flirt with guys that they're NOT interested in.

I guess it's that when they like someone, they don't feel so comfortable with really putting their arm around that person.
But to a guy who's not really a love interest, and just a friend...sure! But, there are exceptions to the rule...

So...this is why it's sometimes hard to tell whether or not a girl's interested.



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sakele

Female, 25, Oakland, CA

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^I repeat--guys are clueless about girls who like them.

is that REALLY how girls do things where you're from? you should talk to your female friends about it to see what they think.



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crx_tyll

Male, Age Private, Oakland, CA

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Yes, I'm one of those guys who thinks you are cute. There I said it. But aside from your pictures I don't really know you. I also happen to disagree with you Sakele. In most cases when a girl flirts with a guy it's cuz she likes him. From my own personal experience, I can tell when a girl is interested in me or simply trying to get something out of me. However it turns out is good, just as long as we both understand what we're getting into. Flirting at times may be exciting, depending on who's initiating the flirting.



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